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I don't even know where my
great-grandfather Thomas O'Hara was born in Ireland or exactly when he arrived
in Canada. He was married in Ottawa (then Bytown), Ontario November 6, 1843 at
the age of 25. So he possibly arrived about 1839, in time to escape the Irish
Potato Famine. It would be nice to know something of his trip up the Ottawa
River from Montréal or did he come via the Rideau Canal? And what about
his experiences as a pioneer in the Ottawa Valley? I can infer something of how
he prospered by reading his will. Thomas
O'Hara's descendents are all across North America as are the descendents of my
mother's side of the
family.
Maybe in years to come someone related to
me will wonder what my life was like, spanning most of the 20th century and
into the 21st. As a matter of fact, there probably are things about my life
that I have not considered important enough to tell my own children. So, in
case it is of interest to anyone, here are some of the highlights.
I was born in a mining
town called Silver Centre, about 35 miles from Cobalt in Northern Ontario. My
mother said the log house had cracks that the Winter wind whistled through. In
the mid 1960's I went on a camping trip with my family to that region and tried
to find the town. I found the general vicinity and there were still signs of a
mine but the bush had grown up and I could not find where the town had been. It
gives a person a sense of his impermanence!
My father worked for my mother's brother
and his wife who owned a wholesale and retail grocery business in Silver
Centre. My uncle's name was Hubert Brennan. He must have been proud of his
name, judging by the sign on the roof of their store.
My parents moved further north and opened a
grocery store in a place with the unlikely name of Swastika. My first memories
are from there.
This is me aged
2 
Unfortunately, my father was too kind
hearted with credit when the Great Depression of the 30's hit. He lost the
store and was lucky enough to get a job working five miles away at the Lake
Shore Mine in Kirkland Lake . Lucky is a relative word. I can remember my
mother pounding my father's back to get the muscles to relax. He was not used
to "mucking" which is what they called shovelling rock underground in the dark
and dampness for an eight hour shift in a gold mine. He peddled a bike back and
forth the five miles to work. Imagine that in the freezing cold of a Northern
Ontario Winter. He liked to write poetry but there is nothing from that
period.
In the middle of the village, next to the
railway station was a very small garden in the middle of what might have been
called a traffic circle, had there been enough traffic to warrant it. In the
centre of the little park (about five yards square) was a flag pole with the
Union Jack flying. Of course, at that time Canada did not have a flag of our
own. We were all British subjects. The station master who happened to have been
born in Germany liked flowers and had time to spare so he thoughtfully created
a very attractive swastika of flowers, with the flag pole exactly in the
middle. Very attractive to the train passengers and the townspeople. No one
thought anything of this before 1939 and when the war came along no one could
tell the station master to change the design and if he did it would have
appeared that he actually had Nazi sympathies. The paradox continued well into
the war when they changed the name of the town to Winston. The garden was not
nearly so interesting after that. After the war the name Swastika was
re-instituted but not the flower garden.
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Connecting the Dots at Clear Lake
Camp, @ 1937
Even well into my
80's, I'm still learning and some of the lessons still have an element of
surprise. Why didn't I see or understand this years ago? For example, I
attended a barbecue at my niece's country home. Wandering through the crowd of
relatives and friends was a very large dog, a breed I'd never seen before. My
brother, Jack, identified it as a Zimbabwean Razorback. "In Africa, the
Razorback is used to hunt tigers and, as a result, is bred to be utterly
fearless," he said. This Razorback looked docile and behaved with total calm
and serenity. "That," Jack pointed out, "is because it has no fear. Haven't you
noticed how small dogs make lots of noise to pretend they aren't afraid?" It's
so obvious. Why had I never connected those dots?
It reminded me about something that happened when I was
about 9 years old. It was in the Dirty Thirties. Most people were poverty
stricken, and my family was no exception. We lived a very basic life in the
mining town of Kirkland Lake in Northern Ontario. But that summer, my father
came into a bit of money, I think by selling some gold mining claims. My
parents used some of this windfall to send my 6-year-old brother Brian and me
to a summer camp for boys near Ottawa. Bill and Tom, two of our Ottawa cousins,
joined us. (That's Bill in the middle and Tom to his left in a photo taken
several years before.) It was an exciting adventure in the South for two boys
from the North.
Brian and I had
already done lots of camping, but it was wilderness camping with a prospector's
tent, fishing, berry picking, canoeing, swimming, learning how not to get lost
in the bush, and how to withdraw safely from unexpected encounters with bears.
Mother took my three younger brothers and me to a lake and deposited us for the
summer. Dad joined us on Sundays; he worked six days a week.
This camp was
entirely different, partly because the activities were organized for groups and
supervised by adults and partly because the dynamics of groups are so different
from being on your own in the bush. Brian and I enjoyed this one-time-only
treat and remembered the highlights for many years.
One thing I didn't
remember at all was what happened during the first few minutes after we
arrived. It was my cousin Bill, some 30 years' later, who asked me whether I
remembered beating up the camp bully who tackled me as soon as I got off the
bus. Why he chose me, I have no idea. Maybe it was because I was the tallest
and skinniest of the new group and he needed to prove his superiority. He
couldn't know my father had taught me how to handle bullies, when I was just
seven and harassed by bigger, meaner boys on the way home from school. The key
is to drive a fist into the solar plexus hard enough to reach the backbone or
as close to it as you can get. Then, as the bully bends over gasping for
breath, bring your knee up under the chin hard enough to try to lift that bully
right off the ground. Then, and this is important, look around and ask calmly,
"Who's next?"
I didn't remember
the incident at the camp at all. For a kid from the North, it was no big thing.
But I did remember what happened when I reached the cabin where I'd been
assigned. There were six double bunk beds and all the most desirable top bunks
were already spoken for. Disappointed, I said to myself, "Gee, I've never slept
in a top bunk." Six boys jumped down and urged me to take theirs. "What a
congenial bunch," I thought, or words to that effect. They certainly were more
polite and thoughtful than the kids in Kirkland Lake.
I chose one of those
nice top bunks and settled in. It wasn't until lights out that I discovered why
everyone wanted a top bunk. It was so the occupants could spit down on the
luckless inhabitants of the lower bunks. I thought this was pretty gross and
said so. The spitting stopped immediately. For good.
It wasn't until last
week-end when, thanks to Jack, I finally connected the dots. And now that I
think of it my father's lesson stood me in good stead, literally and
figuratively, at many times in my life. It is a matter of inner confidence.
When you know you can take care of yourself, when you are confident of your
abilities, you don't need to huff and puff and brag and bark. You will meet
life's challenges with quiet effect. Once in a while, though, a braggart or
bully will buck the odds, and you'll find yourself dealing with the situation
without even having to think about what to do. It's sort of like the magic of
compound interest only better because no one can take it away from you. Once
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1944
In 1955, I
volunteered to speak to school students about my time in the navy. The
Memory Project, with whom I volunteered, asked me to submit a short
article. Here it is.
Marching as to War
World War
II taught me some vivid, lasting life lessons and brought me face to face with
fear and mob rule.
In 1939, I
was living in Kirkland Lake, Ontario, a 13-year-old who sometimes had trouble
collecting from customers to whom I delivered The Globe and Mail. One owed me
for six weeks' worth. When I saw him marching off to war with 100 or so other
recruits, I gave chase, hoping to embarrass him into paying me. He promised to
send me the money, but he never did. Only now do I understand how financially
desperate he must have been to stiff a kid for $1.08.
As soon as
I turned 18, now living in Brantford, I enlisted in the Navy, hoping to
transfer into the Fleet Air Arm. (I desperately wanted to fly as my father had
during World War I, but the Air Force had enough pilots.) I still remember the
look of pride mixed with deep concern on my father's face and my mother's shock
and tears when I announced the news.
Two weeks into basic
training in Montreal, Quebec, we raw recruits were roosted from our bunks,
issued bayonets in scabbards, warned the weapons were just for show, loaded
into open trucks, and sent to quell a riot at a Dorval dance hall.
As we
arrived, the sailors poured into the dance hall. I stood to one side hoping to
stay out of trouble, but one zoot suiter armed with a knife came straight for
me. I managed to disarm him, then let him go. He and others tried to escape by
climbing into the exposed rafters but were pursued by sailors who knocked the
zoot suiters to the floor, then jumped on them. I can still hear the crunch of
bones breaking.
Not yet
satisfied, the sailors stripped the zoot suiters and forced them to run naked
in the snow through the gauntlet of the crowd now gathered outside.
I picked
up a wallet abandoned by a zoot suiter. Inside were his discharge papers. He'd
been wounded overseas. Some coward
.
After
basic training, I took a five-month signals course in St. Hyacinthe, east of
Montreal. I'd opted for it to get as far as possible from something I really
disliked-the noise of big guns. I learned how to send Morse code using a lamp,
semaphore with hand-held flags, and flag combinations run up a mast.
As soon as
I graduated, I was sent to Halifax, Nova Scotia, to await a ship. The day I
arrived, a Canadian frigate was torpedoed just outside the harbour. Every
available vessel was dispatched to sink the German submarine and save our
sailors. Our ships needed to maintain a certain speed to avoid being torpedoed
themselves. They couldn't slow down, but they could throw rescue ropes. Later,
a would-be rescuer told me they could see and hear sailors calling for help,
but the water was so cold, they soon lost the strength to hold on to the ropes.
None survived.
A few
weeks later, the War ended and the German submarine surfaced. Its crew
surrendered and the submarine was conducted to the Halifax dockyard. It felt
very strange to stand beside this deadly thing.
On VE
(Victory in Europe) Day, Halifax erupted in a riot, thanks to the Navy brass
decision to close the dockyard beer hall. The celebrating sailors, already
inebriated, poured into the streets, commandeered a streetcar, smashed its
wooden seats, and sent the car off the tracks. Energized by this act of
vandalism, the sailors continued on foot, heading downtown. Curious, I
followed.
Soon, the
mob found a liquor store, helped themselves, and continued their quest for who
knows what. Civilians joined them. When the crowd reached Eaton's, someone used
a large pole as a battering ram to smash the department store's windows. The
sailors seemed more interested in the act of destruction than theft, but I saw
many civilians carrying armloads of clothes and filling cars with furniture. It
was an ugly scene.
Why didn't
I try to stop the mob? In retrospect, I decided it wasn't fear that held me
back; I just didn't know what to do. Next time, I decided, I would do
something.
Recently,
I had an opportunity to act on my resolve. I saw a very big man beating a very
slight woman on a side street in Toronto where I now live. A small crowd had
gathered to watch. As I approached, I shouted, "Call the police!" The man fled
and the woman was able to escape. Doing something, even if it seems very little
can make a difference. Thanks to my time in the Navy, I learned this life
lesson early. I'm grateful.
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1948
I took
advantage of the government's re-establishment credits for ex-service
personnel to go to university. I graduated with a BA from the University of
Toronto. Looking back, it is difficult to believe I was so "wet behind the
ears". I didn't give much thought to what I might do as a career and there were
no guidance counsellors in those days. I sure could have benefited from some
advice. Well, eventually, things worked out not too badly but it took a number
of jumps before I landed on my feet.
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A letter from my father from his death
bed, 1955
As I write this segment, the date is
January 31, 2003. Last weekend I had my two daughters (Lyn and Kathryn,) to my
place for dinner. The occasion was a visit from Lyn who now lives in Sedona,
Arizona. She came to Toronto to see her brother Andrew who is in a palliative
care hospital, dying of cancer. These are emotional times. I was reminded of a
letter I received from my father at another emotional time. I received the
letter the day after I got news of his death. The letter gives a good idea of
who my father was. It was difficult maintaining my composure as I read it to
Lyn and Kathy.
The Ottawa General Hospital Bengere
St. Ottawa, Ontario, December 17-55
(He died on December 26th)
Dear Austra & Frank:
I have long neglected writing to you and am
sorry such is the case but believe me I have often thought of you and wished
you well.
I have had a bit of a slow down with my
heart which, if I thought of it at all, deemed indestructible. But things
proved otherwise and now I am confined to bed and will probably be here until
after Christmas. It is not very seriously impaired and the Dr. says if I take
it easy it will last for years. But I will probably have to have absolute quiet
for about a month. I had electrocardiographs. The first showed it was injured
and the second will tell if it is healing or not. I have had no pain since it
first hit me.
Gerry has been accepted into the RCMP and
will leave for Regina in the 28th inst. I am glad for his sake, although we
will miss him but it has been his goal ever since he was ten years of age. One
must let everyone live his own life I suppose.
Alma was here this afternoon and she said
you were coming here around the first of January. We will be so pleased to see
you and our grandchildren. I hear Lyn has turned into a little beauty and Tommy
is a quite a boy now. It is very nice for you to have a very nice home to raise
them in. Alma tells me it is very nice. We will look forward to your
arrival.
Jack is coming home around the 1st of Jan.
for two weeks and you will probably be here at the same time. Jack is a good
raconteur and he will probably have some amazing stories to tell, some true and
some out of pure wool. It is hard to tell whether the colored threads are true
or straight off the sheep's back. They make us enjoy the picture true of not
and I am looking forward to his arrival. He used to get a great kick out of
some story he would tell his mother just to get her going and she would wind it
all up by saying, "Oh you darned fool."
I have made a lot of starts on poetry and
finished a few. I see the picture I want to paint but it is awfully difficult
to pick the right words to paint it. I can understand that no poet or painter
or artist is satisfied with his work. Only Divine aid could inspire the great
poems, music and paintings which the centuries produced. For instance I can see
a mist rising over a falls to disappear and reappear in a cloud which the wind
blows to some parched place and starts a new growth. In my mind I can see a
kind deed doing the same thing for universal benefit. Or love given to one,
spreading out like the mist to disappear and come back in an unexpected place
or form. Does not the happy sparkle in a child's eye put a sparkle in your own
and spread out to a whole community. In the army it is called morale and where
it is present men will laugh even under the most dreadful conditions. Could the
crashing water coursing down its destined path sometimes calm and sometimes
swiftly till it disintegrates into mist over the falls while nature roars with
laughter when it rises into mist. Could this be the nature's poet telling us
all about it and will I fall over my falls before I can rise in mist too? To
tell the truth If I could I would. Perhaps that is why poets disappear so
silently and their song is not heard until a generation or more has
passed.
Perhaps this sounds despondent to you. If
so it was not meant. In fact the contrary. it is just that I would love to
write a poem with these thoughts in it but I think without God's help I'll
never be able. Everything that exists does not have to.
Best of love,
Dad
 My daughter Lynn (who now spells her
name Lyn, the same way my father did, when she was learning to write her
name practiced her writing on my father's letter. So she put herself in the
historical record.
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1990
 This is a photo of the four
O'Hara "boys", (Brian, Gerry, Frank, Jack) as the people up north called us
when we visited our cabin in the bush near Kirkland Lake, Ontario. We were
"boys" when we first started going up there, lo these many years ago. Weren't
we a healthy looking crew in 1990? As I write this Gerry and I are still in the
land of the living but we've passed the cabin and the claims on which it stands
on to the next generation.

Business Career, 1953 - 1998
Following
my graduation from the University of Toronto in 1948 I held a number of
unsatisfactory jobs until 1953, when I joined Moore Business Forms Ltd. as a
salesman. I spent some 16 years there and was quite successful as a salesman,
sales supervisor and latterly a Toronto branch manager. Looking back, I realize
that I left as a by-product of my marriage break-up. I joined my cousin, Tom
McLaughlin, in a new enterprise that arranged to place audio visual projectors
in Canadian embassies around the world. The object was to have communities,
provinces, and the federal government place industrial development oriented
promotional audio visual programs around the world. In a word, this was not
successful.
I had
had an interest in photography and with the above exposure to audio visual
programs, in 1970, I launched O'Hara Management Services Ltd. In 1984, that
company evolved into O'Hara Systems Inc. to produce multimedia programs (touch
screen systems). We didn't set the world on fire but we did earn some
international awards. This company happened to be at the very outset of the
Internet. As a result, in the early 1990's we started to produce websites. So I
pioneered multimedia and pioneered website development. Pioneers don't usually
get as rich as the followers on. I qualified as the former.
In 1998 I
decided to retire. This was an opportunity for me to 'see the world' but I
didn't have the funds to do so in any kind of style. When I had O'Hara Systems
Inc. I had staff who actually did the programming of websites. One opportunity
to 'see the world' was as a volunteer. The Canadian Executive Service
Organization (CESO) sends volunteers to developing countries. Most of the
volunteers are retirees. I was probably the only one with expertise in website
development. I knew about website development in general and certainly how to
make good use of them but not actually how to program them. So I bought some
html editing software and a graphics creation program and spent some months
learning how to use them. There are several definitions of an expert. I hardly
qualified as an expert but I knew more than my clients.
As you
will see from the Volunteer part of this
website, I did get around the world and enjoyed the process.
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2003
On a happier note.....
 Marion E.
Raycheba and I were married on April 2, 2003
I've had
some bad luck in my life but then who hasn't. I am glad to say I've had some
good fortune too. This is an outstanding example.
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2004
The Globe
and Mail newspaper, celebrating its 160th anniversary on March 5th, 2004, asked
anyone with something interesting to add to their annivesary issue to submit it
for consideration. I wrote the following article and it was accepted.
Frank O'Hara, paper boy for The Globe and
Mail, 1939
It was
1939. I had a Globe and Mail route in Kirkland Lake, Ontario. The Globe was
running a promotion to sign up new subscribers, and we paperboys were invited
to a motivational, kick-off dinner. Each of us was allowed to bring one guest,
and I chose my brother, Brian, who, at 11, was two years younger than I.
Brian sat
opposite me at the table. At some point, he committed a grievous faux pas in
the etiquette department, possibly talking with his mouth full. As his older
brother, I felt responsible for him. I found it necessary to draw attention to
his manners with a kick under the table. Brian looked at me, his big blue eyes
quivering with tears, and asked in a pitiful tone, "Frank, why are you kicking
me?" I was of an age where I blushed easily. I believe I lit up the room.
In any
event, I went on to win the contest for Northern Ontario but still fell short
of signing up sufficient subscribers to win the canoe I craved. However, I did
win two other magnificent prizes. One, a sum in cash, was sufficiently princely
($27 as I recall) for me to buy my first suit.
The other was a trip to Toronto by train to visit
The Globe and Mail's nerve centre on King Street, followed by a one-week,
all-expenses-paid vacation at The Globe's summer camp at Port Dover on Lake
Erie. I still remember the amazing image of newspapers streaming through the
giant presses and the luxurious (by my standards) cabins at Port Dover. (I was
used to camping in a prospector's tent in the bush.)
The Globe
was put on the midnight train from Toronto, arriving in Kirkland Lake about 1
p.m. I traded with other paperboys in order to line up customers between the
pick-up spot for the papers and my school. That way, I could deliver part of my
route and still make it to school by the 1:30 p.m. bell. I had to walk very
quickly, but I was seldom late. I was proud to overhear one of my customers
brag that he could set his watch by the time his newspaper was delivered each
day.
The other
part of my route had to be delivered after school, which, in northern Ontario
in the winter meant after dark and usually in sub zero weather. I remember
coming home caked in snow to a cup of my mothers much-appreciated hot
chocolate.
I don't
remember ever feeling sorry for myself. A child growing up in that environment
takes it for granted. Being a Globe paperboy brought me much in addition to
financial acumen and a sense of responsibility. It opened my eyes to the world
because I was able to read The Globe every day.
My
earningsfive cents from the 18 cents' weekly subscription pricewas
important income to a Depression-era boy. From the age of 12, I used it to buy
my own clothes and, every once in a while, a treat. But since a chocolate bar
cost five cents in those days, I always thought long and hard about the six
days it took to earn five cents and the short seconds it took for the treat to
disappear.
Many
assume that volunteers joining the armed forces at the outbreak of World War II
did it because they wanted to serve their country. I imagine that was true for
many, but my sharpest memory is chasing a group of volunteers marching to the
train station on the way to save Western civilization. One of them owed me for
several weeks' worth of newspapers. As far as I was concerned, that was a pair
of warm socks or an agonizing number of chocolate bars leaving town. Since
poverty has no shame, I marched alongside my penniless customer and pestered
him for payment in a loud voice. He tried to shush me by asking me to write out
my name and address and promising he would send me the money. I did. He didn't.
Today, I
am still an avid, daily reader of The Globe and Mail and, thanks to its
informative and interesting pages, I am still learning.
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1967
 Lynn 12, Andew 5, Kim 10, Kathryn 8, Tom 11
My son Andrew died while taking
a nap on Sunday afternoon March 2, 2003. He had turned 42 on February
24th.
Andrew
developed schizophrenia at age 19 when he was in his second year at university.
He always thought he would be able to go back one day but his illness made it
impossible. The last eight years or so were not too bad. He had a small
apartment near the psychiatric hospital and was able to go to the hospital each
morning for his medication. However, he was unable to do any work. He collected
a government disability pension known as "Family Benefits". I had made
arrangements for him to pick up his breakfast each morning at the hospital and
get his medication at the same time. Prior to that arrangement, as is common
with those with schizophrenia, he would go off his medication and end up in the
hospital for about a month while they stabilized him. He went through literally
dozens of boarding houses on that basis. He was a big fellow, at least 6' 2"
and over 200 pounds and could look intimidating but he was actually quite
gentle.
My
daughter Kathryn was a great support at this time. We arranged to have Andrew's
body cremated. My second wife, Jean, with her husband, Bruce Robertson were
there with Kathy and me. In addition, a social worker from the mental hospital,
Stephen Willoughby, who had worked with Andrew for some years came to the
little ceremony. As well, two people who worked at the apartment building
(assisted housing) where Andrew stayed, came along. It is wonderful that there
are kind and considerate people like these who work in trying circumstances and
receive little to no positive feedback. Saintly is the word that comes to my
mind. There are many of these people who work on the margins of our society.
Too bad we hear so much about the people who cause problems and not enough
about the people who tend to the downtrodden.
We didn't
have any kind of conventional ceremony. There were only seven of us in the
small chapel next to the crematorium. We talked about Andy. I was reminded of
him as a child. When I find it I intend to display a picture of Andy when he
was about 5 years old. He was fishing on the dock of our cabin up North. His
attention was riveted on the end of his fishing line. It illustrated an element
of his personality that remained even through his illness. He was also very
neat about his room when he was growing up and, surprisingly, his apartment
showed this quality still. There were too many odds and ends but each item had
its place, even the dishes in his cupboard were evenly spaced on the shelves.
As a youngster Andy was a trader. He was buying and selling used cars before he
was old enough to have a driver's licence. For his apartment he was continually
buying used items and trading up to better ones. He had a few eccentricities.
For example, in the summer he almost always wore a flower in his lapel (lifted
from nearby gardens). He had about a dozen hats and always wore one; his
favourite was a "Sherlock Holmes" one, which he ported along with his "Sherlock
Holmes" pipe (again one among many). He wore a scarf, even in the summer
time.
Afterwards
we came to my apartment where we toasted Andrew, reminisced about him and
shared some food.
It would
be nice to believe that Andrew has moved on to a better place. He certainly
earned it.
Bad news about my son Tom
Exactly a week after Andrew died I received
word that Tom had Lymphoma. Tom, too, had schizophrenia since he was in his
early teens. He was born in 1955. To put it mildly, he had a difficult life
after his illness. However, in his latter years he was quite stable, possibly
due to a new medication. He lived in a group home North of Toronto for about
ten of his last years.
This is a
photo of Tom at about 3 years of age
I sent the
following email to Lyn and copied my other "healthy" children, Kim and Kathy,
after they heard about the situation and were concerned about my
well-being.
Hi Lyn,
It is a
shock about Tommy. Though, I went through several states of grief many years
ago, both with Tom and with Andy. It was very difficult for me to accept the
fact that first Tom and then Andrew would never again be normal. I had so many
hopes and dreams. I still treasure the early times. For years I kept trying to
make a difference by offering suggestions, etc. The tide turned one time when I
drove all the way to a place near St. Thomas (past London) to see Tommy who was
in a mental institution. He had been sent to the hospital in Penatanguishene
for the Criminally Mentally Ill because they have an "open door" policy in the
regular mental hospitals and he kept running away. It was a horrible place. I
had to appeal to the Ontario Ombudsman to get him out and the only other
hospital with locked doors was at St. Thomas. When I saw him I offered some
suggestion about what Tom might do. He immediately got up and left. After
driving for 2 1/2 hours I had about two minutes with him and then had to drive
another 2 1/2 hours back to Toronto. I had plenty of time to think. I learned,
the hard way, that I had to do what I could but accept the situation for what
it was - with no likelihood or hope of its changing for the better. I learned
just to be with Tom and Andy when I visited. Talk was not really necessary and
didn't really help. Emanations of un-spoken love did. And it helped both them
and me.
It might
sound cold and unfeeling to say that I don't feel much grief at this point. I
am sad but more for the unlived life and the unrealized promise than for the
imminent death of Tom and the recent one of Andrew, although that finality will
pile another rock or two on a pile that was built rather high many years ago.
At least the pile will not grow any more. But neither will it go away in a
hurry, if at all. We all want to live a full life but a full life has not only
happiness but tragedy. We can and should take as much delight as possible from
the happy times and we have the unwelcome opportunity to grow from the tragic
ones. This is a difficult period for all of us. Let's continue to support each
other and keep our spirits up, while we send our love to each other and
particularly to Tom.
Love,
Dad
As I write
this, several months have passed and Tom is taking chemotherapy. He is losing
his hair but not suffering any other ill effects. The doctors say that his
condition (Non-Hodgkins Disease) is treatable. So we are hoping for the
best
It is now
February 2, 2004. Before Christmas, Tom appeared to have fully recovered.
Fortunately, he had very few side effects from the chemo therapy, other than
losing his hair. However, now the disease has re-appeared. Tom is undergoing a
series of tests to determine the extent of the re-occurrence and suitable
treatment. We can only hope!
June 23,
2005 - Tom died today. His non-hodgkins lymphoma came back. He had some further
treatments and it looked like he was recovering inasmuch as the obvious lumps
on his neck, etc. had disappeared. All of a sudden he passed out at the place
where he was staying, north of Toronto. They rushed him to the hospital but he
died several hours later. He came down with a massive infection. With his
weakened state because of the chemo-therapy, his immune system was insufficient
to fight it off.
Unconventional burials
My brothers and I inherited several patented mining claims near Kirkland Lake
in Northern Ontario. It's a long drive but the fishing is good and the quiet is
intense. Our cabin is tiny but we have the end of Beaverhouse Lake all to
ourselves. I felt that the lake in front of the cabin was a suitable place to
deposit Andrew's and Tom's ashes.
I didn't spread them but simply dropped the boxes into the water. So
they rest on the bottom, until the cardboard boxes disintigrate.
This year
(2006) my brother Jack surprised me with a plaque dedicated to Andy and Tom. We
installed it on a rock face below the cabin and facing the water. I was touched
by Jack's thoughtfulness.
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Visit to Ireland
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In
September, 2005 I finally visited the land of my ancestors. Marion and I had
the opportunity to experience what is known in Ireland as a Caeli (pronounced
Kaylee). If you'd like to see a bit of it, click
here. N.B. You'll need a high speed connection or plenty of patience.
Marion volunteered me to participate in a little contest. (I won the
prize!) |
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2006
This has
been a rather special year. First of all, Marion planned and executed a
marvellous party on the occasion of my attaining the "estimable" age of 80. We
had a wonderful time with speeches, champagne, great food and the opportunity
to entertain my brothers and their wives as well as cousins from Ottawa and
Quebec City, my children Kathryn and Kim plus Lyn from Sedona, AZ and a number
of friends.
 Frank & Marion |
 The brothers: Jack,
Frank, Gerry |
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European River Cruise
Marion and I have had some wonderful
vacations. However, this year our vacation was particularly enjoyable.
In
mid-October, 2006, we flew to Budapest and spent three days there walking and
gawking, then boarded Amadeus Waterways' Amadagio for a two-week cruise from
Budapest to Amsterdam via the Danube, the Mainz, and the Rhine rivers. After
some 80 canal locks and 15 or so stops in mostly tiny medieval villages, as
well as Vienna and Cologne, we disembarked in Amsterdam and spent three days
there walking and gawking. We had fabulous weather on the cruise and left
Europe just as a fierce rainstorm was moving in. The river cruise was great.
The ships are small (to fit in the locks and under the many low-lying bridges).
Ours had about 135 passengers and 50 staff (nautical, housekeeping, and
hospitality combined). The atmosphere was excellent, the shore tours were very
well planned and guided, and the food was excellent and beautifully presented
with modest servings that made it possible to enjoy three or four courses
without subsequent waddling or groaning. We enjoyed free local wines along the
way (served with lunch and dinner). |
 Arrived in Amsterdam (That's a genuine relaxed
look!) |
With
a couple from the USA we put together a song to thank the crew on our last
evening on board. Fred (the American) and I did the crooning.
Click here to see it. (It is a 6 minute video
and may take a while to download, depending on your Internet
connection.)
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2007
The MetroTones
Two other
people (younger and much more professionally musical than I) and I have formed
a trio. We perform at seniors' residences and such places. It's fun and the
audiences enjoy our efforts. I sing, Anita Gaide plays piano and Andrew Zarins
plays clarinet and saxophone. Click
here to see the flyer we've developed. As of fall of 2009, we are a quartet
with the addition of a second singer, Pat Huff. That evens things up with two
males and two females.
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2008

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Starting
in January, I took upon myself the task of spearheading a movement to make a
neighbourhood "desert" presentable, if not beautiful. It's in front of a police
station next to our condo building. It has taken all the persistence that I
practised as an entrepreneur and now looks like something good will happen. It
is surprising how many facets of the municipal government can be involved in
such a project. I've been in touch with all of them - so far as I
know.
There are
particularly good reasons for beautifying this area. Anyone taking the subway
to the Art Gallery of Ontario (AGO) or Ontario College of Art and Design (OCAD)
needs to walk across this "desert". It would be wonderful to have a European
style plaza here with some appropriate touches of the arts.
I sent
this article to a local free newspaper in the hope of lining up additional
support. I took the photo from the roof of our condo building.
Well, as
of the end of August 2008, we're making progress. The councillor for this ward,
Adam Vaughan, has agreed to allocate development funds from a local project
towards the cost of the square. Also, we have the approval of the police
subject to some concerns for their security. OCAD (The Ontario College of Art
& Design) one of our neighbours, has been supportive all along and have
agreed to develop a design for the square and a budget. They will start to work
on this in the fall. So the project, which we are tentatively calling Jane
Jacobs Square, is becoming a reality. (Having heard that Beijing's Tianamen
Square is the largest in the world and ours is possibly the smallest and the
fact that we are on the edge of Toronto's downtown China Town I considered the
name "Teenymen Square". Does that qualify me for a cornball prize?)
It's
now April, 2009 and not much has happened. However, hope springs repeatedly
in some people. Now another part of OCAD is involved and it looks promissing.
It's
now 2010 and I'm still working away on this project. This Spring The
Ontario College of Art and Design (OCAD), in response to my prodding, had a
charette/contest for their graduating students to develop a design for the
proposed square. Some 25 groups of students created quite attractive designs.
Click here to access a number of the entries:
http://www.ocad.ca/students/2010_design_comp_photo_gallery.htm
The city
of Toronto has designated Dundas St. for upgrading in a serious way. 'My'
project falls within their parameters. My hopes have new life. I'm to be part
of a group examining various ideas. We'll see whether this is my great
opportunity.
It's
now 2012 and the city has promised to make the "parkette" a part of a
project to beautify Dundas St. from University Ave. to Bathurst St. Time for
another push.
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A visit with my daughter, Lyn, in
Sedona, AZ
By 2008,
Lyn had been living in Sedona with her husband, Michael, for over ten years.
She has an interesting way of earning her living. She has clients in the U.S.,
Canada and Brazil with whom she deals over the phone. Lyn has a special
capacity to relate to people's personal problems and to help them to resolve
those problems. For more information on this you might like to check out her
website at www.lynohara.com.
In case you are unaware of the
unusual red rock formations that make Sedona such a popular place here are a
few photos. |
 From Lyn's back yard |
 From Lyn's front yard |
 Michael, Lyn's friend Bea & Lyn
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Volunteering in China
With the Olympics in China making news, I
was asked by my good friend, Griff Thompson, to make a presentation at a local
Kiwanis Club meeting about my work in China. With my background I couldn't
simply talk about it. I had to make use of some of the video I shot in my 3
assignments (1999, 2001, 2003) and organize the facts and figures into a
PowerPoint presentation.
It took a
good deal of effort to organize the information; so I took the opportunity to
present it at several other venues. Then I was asked to send the images of the
facts and figures because many found them sufficiently interesting that they
wanted to review them. Again, I couldn't leave well enough alone. The video
part of my PP presentation was a rather big a file to include as an email
attachment and some commentary was warranted to go with the factual images. I
removed the video, added a few still photos and inserted some
commentary.
If you'd
like to have a look at this presentation, you can download it by clicking
http://www.ohara.com/VolunteerinChina.pps
If you don't have PowerPoint on your system, you'll need to download the
PowerPoint Viewer.
Click
here. If you have only a dial-up connection, sad to say, you'd better give
up now.

I graduated from the University of
Toronto in 1948
Interesting how much
hair is lost in 60 years Interesting, too, how few from my class are still
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2009
As a sort
to Christmas card, I prepared a 'story' of this year's activities: vacation,
voluntary work, etc. Click here to have a
look.
On a not
so pleasant note, my brother, Jack, died last summer. Jack was seven years
younger than I. He managed with type 2 diabetes for 20 years or so. For years
my three brothers and I spent a week each summer at our cabin near Kirkland
Lake in Northern Ontario communing with nature, fixing up winter's
depredations, playing chess and other games and even catching some fish. My
brother, Brian, died some years ago and Gerry was less enthusiastic about the
rustic life but Jack and I kept up the tradition by ourselves for the last ten
years or so. It's a major change in my life not to take this annual excursion.
My formative years were spent in Kirkland Lake. Now I'll probably not see it
again. Not that there's much to see or that the cabin was anything but rustic,
but it is a wrench to know that something fundamental is no longer a part of my
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Brian, Gerry, Frank & Jack
at the cabin - 1990 |

Jack on my right at his daughter
Kelly's Summer Barbeque - 2008 |
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2010
The Family Council - What is it?
What does it do?
For the year 2010, I
was elected President of The Board of Directors of The Family Council, a
not-for-profit organization funded by CAMH (The Centre for Addiction and Mental
Health). The Family Council represents the voice of families (broadly
defined) struggling to deal with relatives who have an addiction or mental
health disorder. The Family Council also is an advocate at CAMH for the
concerns of the families of the mentally ill.
Addictions and
mental health in our society are not to be taken lightly. Some 20% of the
Canadian population has a mental illness. The costs, financial, social, and
emotional, are a huge burden, particularly the Canadian health care system.
I have prepared a
PowerPoint presentation and welcome the opportunity to present it to your
organization. You will find this presentation of facts and figures and videos
both informative and interesting. Here are some of the points
covered:
- As a concerned citizen, you
owe it to yourself to learn - just what is the impact of addiction and mental
illness on our society?
- If you are a parent, sibling,
or friend of someone with an addiction or mental disorder, support is
available.
- If you've dealt with this type
of family situation yourself, that makes you something of an expert. Would you
like to help others who are struggling to cope?
- If you would simply like to
keep abreast of what is happening in this important area you can sign up for
The Family Council free newsletter.
In the meantime, you
might like to check out www.thefamilycouncil.ca.
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Vacation in Belgium and France
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Marion and I have
visited France quite a number of times. This year we decided to spend six weeks
and to visit some of the places we had not yet experienced. Top of the list
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We rented a car from
the Paris airport and drove north to Ypres in Belgium. (Driving in France and
Belgium is a story in itself.) Ypres was decimated by the war. Amazingly, they
rebuilt all the medieval city exactly as it had been before the destruction. We
used Ypres as a launching pad to visit many sites in southern Belgium and
Northern France, including the famous monument at Vimy, that you see in the
photo above.
Subsequently we
spent several days in Bruges, a wonderfully preserved medieval city in Northern
Belgium. Then we went south to such places as Giverny (Monet's house), Lyon La
Forêt, Rouen, Honfleur, the Bayeux Tapestry, Mt. St. MIchel, Tours,
Clermont-Ferrand, Nimes, Avignon, Lyon, Dijon and, finally, five days in Paris
to visit the few places we had missed in previous trips, such as the sewars and
the catacombs and several of the more obscure churches. Of course, we enjoyed
the wonderful French cuisine, to say nothing of the wine and the cheeses and I
had numerous opportunities to augment my French vocabulary.
I shot a lot of
video so we can re-live this wonderful vacation any number of times.
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2011
ONTARIO SENIOR ACHIEVEMENT AWARD
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My wife, Marion,
unbeknownst to me, nominated me for this Province of Ontario Award. Nineteen
such Awards were conferred to recipients from across the province. I was the
only one from Toronto. You can check out, below, the documents that Marion
submitted. (They needed to be submiitted a year in advance.) I received the
Award from the Lieutenant Governor in a ceremony at Queen's Park December 14,
2011.
Covering
letter (read this first for an overview)
Nomination
statement
Letters of support:
OCAD University, (page 2) *
City of Toronto, *
Haiti, * Centre
Francophone, (page
2)
CESO/SACO, (page 2) * Family Council, (page 2)
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Frank
O'Hara & Honourable David C. Onley Lieutenant Governor
Ontario |
Over the Years....
Why I continue to improve my
facility with French
Way back
in 1965 I was in a serious car accident in Mexico. I had been travelling with
my family through the USA and across the desert to Phoenix, Arizona, down the
west coast of Mexico and across Mexico to Mexico City. All the time I was
careful to wear a seat belt. I didn't bother to do it up, though, after
stopping for directions to a famous archeological site just outside Mexico
City. I was only five minutes away. A fateful five minutes. We had a head-on
collision with a very large dump truck. My chest bent the steering wheel about
30 degrees and I shattered the windshield with my head. I guess it pays to be
head strong. I survived, obviously. After several days in a jail-type hospital
(Napoleonic Code: guilty until proven innocent) a young intern came to my bed.
When he found that I was not a Gringo but a Canadian he said, "Mais je parle
français beaucoup mieux que je parle anglais." (For the unilingual: "But
I speak French much better than English.")
As a
typical English speaking Canadian I did not have a working command of French.
Lying on my bed of pain. with not much to occupy my mind I decided, since I
thought of myself as a "citizen of the world" I ought to be able to speak at
least two languages. Being a Canadian the two languages certainly ought to be
English and French.
If
nothing else I'm persistent. I've been working at becoming bilingual for all
these years since. I've made progress, particularly since I retired. I belong
to several different groups where I can work on improving my French.
Our monthly group we call the Franco
Flaneurs. We meet once a month at one another's homes for a pot-luck Sunday
brunch. I'm old enough to be the father of most of these fellow francophiles.
It's interesting how a common interest can bring people together. Age is not
necessarily important, certainly that's true as far as I'm concerned and I
believe that's the case with the other Franco Flaneurs as well. In the summer
we've often gone on a bicycle/picnic sojourn in one or another local park.
Here's a photo from one of our outings.
I am also active in some other
groups:
Top of the list is French conversation at
the First Unitarian Congregation each Friday afternoon for two hours. Claude
Marchand is the volunteer from the congregation who leads us through articles
from L'actualité. We take turns reading a couple of paragraphs in French
and then translating them. We also discuss some of the matters that arise from
the articles. This is the most rewarding group to which I belong. Every week
Claude makes a list of words that we found challenging. The next week we review
these. This way, I should be adding vocabulary at the rate of 30 to 50 new
words or expressions a week. If only my memory were that good!!
I also belong to Le Centre Francophone de
Toronto. They have various activities organized around helping recent
Francophone immigrants to Toronto. I mentor immigrants (one at a time) -
helping them to prepare a good résumé and providing pointers on
job-searching in Toronto - Central Library facilities, relevant websites,
coaching for interviews, helping with their English, etc. The fellow with me in
my office is Leki Ymele, orginally from Cameroon.
Twice a month I meet with a group at the
Royal Ontario Museum. We visit one or another exhibit in the museum and are
lectured on the content by a French speaking volunteer. That lasts about 1/2
hour. Then we adjourn to a room where we usually take turns reading from
information on whatever we've viewed and discussing new vocabulary. I've been
doing this for ten years or more. I ought to be an expert on the museum. We
keep finding something new though.
After all these years I've only reached the
point where, as they say in French, "Je me débrouille." (I can manage.)
Nevertheless, I'm getting better. Given another forty years I should be quite
bilingual, n'est-ce pas?
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Poverty

I know we were poor, certainly by today's
standards. However, until recently, I never actually thought of our family as
poverty stricken. Actually, that was normal in the "dirty thirties". In this
photo I was in grade 2 but, obviously the teacher had a lot on her hands. (I'm
in the middle of the front row, with blond hair and a big white collar.) No one
would say we looked prosperous. Later, though, when we were each given a half
pint of milk each day, I realized that some of my school mates usually didn't
have breakfast. Our family was never quite that desperate but my parents had a
serious and difficult job feeding and clothing four fast-growing
boys.
My earliest memories were in a town called
Swastika (named after the Indian symbol for good luck). Dad had a general store
- one of the two in the town. When the depression hit in 1929, dad was able to
carry on for a couple of years. However, he couldn't bring himself to deny
credit to families with young children. The desperate families were not to
blame for dad's not being able to pay his suppliers. Those were desperate and
evil times. The competitive store didn't grant credit and survived.
Dad managed to get a job working
underground in the Lake Shore Mine in Kirkland Lake, about 5 miles away. The
mine ran 3 shifts a day, 6 days a week. Dad road a bike to work. Not too bad
for the daytime ride - in the summer. The winter and the night were something
else. I recall him crediting our prayers for not getting soaked in a storm. He
claimed that it rained all around him. Probably the prayers were unreliable
because we moved to Kirkland Lake. Dad could now walk to work. After a couple
of years he managed to get moved to work on the surface where they framed the
timber supports for the underground tunnels. Much less dangerous too. At school
we would often feel the shudder of what was called a rock burst - a cave-in.
Often this was just an area that was no longer being worked. But those of us
with fathers at work underground had our own internal shudder.
It was common for stores to grant credit
because very few had cash for children's shoes, food, etc. Pay day was not a
happy occasion. The rent came first. There was never enough to pay for all the
other debts. I vividly remember my mother crying every payday. The frustration
of having to rob Peter to pay Paul happened every two weeks.
When I was about nine or ten years old my
brother Brian (two years younger) and I scrounged for whatever money we could
uncover to help with family. One job was to go through garbage to find six and
eleven quart baskets that we could sell at the Saturday market. We got 3 cents
for the smaller and 5 cents for the larger baskets. Women shopping at the
market had to buy a basket because the farmers didn't provide any shopping
bags. I graduated from that job to selling chickens. Farmers who sold eggs
would often have one or two hens that were no longer laying eggs. I rented a
stall and bought the "old-timer" hens for something like 25 cents each. I
offered these at $2 but never expected to get that much. I learned to haggle
from the Eastern European women who were real experts. They would fatten up the
hens in the backyard.
One day a woman actually agreed to pay $2,
not an Eastern European obviously. I was delighted and I'm sure had a big smile
on my face as I handed her the live hen, upside down with legs tied. "No, no",
she said, "I don't want it live." I'd never even been on a farm let alone
killed a chicken but for $1.75 profit I was sure ready to learn. I borrowed an
axe, took the hen outside, found a tree stump, spread the hen's neck out and
swung the axe. I had done lots of wood chopping so the axe was not a problem.
However, when the hen's head flew off in one direction and the body flopped all
over the place in another I had a passing thought that I'd earned my profit. My
first entrepreneurial exercise but not my last and never so bloody or so
shocking.
The forest was not far outside Kirkland
Lake; so it was not a particularly big job for Brian and myself to fetch the
family Christmas tree. It was hard tramping through the snow though. We brought
back two at once; so we could sell the second one to a neighbour. We learned
that trees that look a normal size in the bush are far too big after the
struggle to get them home.
The most regular job I had was as a Globe
and Mail paper boy. The paper left Toronto around midnight to arrive at
Kirkland Lake about 1 PM the next day. I picked up my papers at that time and
delivered quite a few of them at a fast trot on the way to school, for 1:30.
The rest I delivered after school. Delivering newspapers in Northern Ontario in
the winter, to use an inapt phrase, is no picnic. First of all it is pitch dark
after about 3 in the afternoon, secondly there are some fierce storms, thirdly
freezing temperature is the norm. I remember coming home covered with snow and
the comfort of mother making me a cup of cocoa as I warmed myself in front of
the wood stove in the kitchen.
However, it wasn't all hard times, besides,
I never had anything to compare against; so I never felt hard done by. Needless
to say, we didn't have a cottage. However, mother took us four boys camping
when my brother Gerry (the youngest) was still in diapers. We had two
prospector type tents. My uncle Tommy had a car and drove us out to one or
another of the many lakes in the region where we stayed for most of the summer.
Dad visited us most weekends on his Sunday off. (He worked six days a week for
13 years at the mine and never had a vacation. They went on strike for one
week's vacation and lost the strike.) We cooked on an open fire, fished and
picked berries and practically lived off the land. After that apprentiship,
when I was about 12 and Brian two years younger, we camped on our own for a
couple of years, hitch-hiking in to town each Saturday so we could go to Mass
on Sunday and then hitch-hiking back with provisions for the next week. I
didn't realize till much later that this was probably our parents' innovative
way to prevent us from getting into trouble with some of the other young people
in our neighbourhood. When I think of the protective attitude of typical
parents today I wonder at the difference and suspect that we learned a lot
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This is my grade nine class in Kirkland
Lake, 1939. That's me, age 14, in the back row - three from the left, to the
right of the teacher. I had now graduated from paper boy to working part-time,
first at Kresge's and then at the local A&P Store. My wages were a
wonderful 24 cents an hour. However, in those days a good-sized chocolate bar
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At the end of my next school year, dad had
lost the strike at the mine (for one week's paid annual vacation) and travelled
south to find a different job. He went to Welland, Ontario where he found work
as a carpenter. WW II was in mid-stride and that put an end to the Depression.
That year, 1942, I turned 16. The family was still in Kirkland Lake. I joined
dad for the summer on a construction site as a labourer. The only problem was
that when it rained, we had to sit it out and didn't get paid. It rained
frequently. After a whole summer's labour, at the sumptuous rate of 50 cents an
hour, having paid for my board and room and my train fare back and forth I only
had enough money to buy myself a $35 suit. Suits were de rigeur in those days.
That was my second one. I bought my first with the money from a Globe and Mail
subscription contest I won two years before. Actually, from the time I was
about nine or ten years of age I bought most of my own clothes. I also paid for
such things as dental work. A filling cost $1 in those days plus $1 if freezing
were required. I couldn't afford the freezing. I guess that helped form my
life-long habit of being careful with money and early practice with making
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We were poor but we children did have a
number of advantages. We had parents who really loved and cared for us and set
a good example of honesty, kindness and responsibility. My parents, as far as I
can recall, never used the word "love" but they showed it in their daily lives
both for each other and for us children. Mother was careful to provide us a
balanced diet, even if it was with the cheapest cuts of meat and a limited
assortment of vegetables. I recall asking the butcher for a bone for the dog.
I'm sure the kind man knew that there would be no meat left for the dog. We
grew up healthy in body and spirit and learned how to "stand on our own feet".
I am grateful.
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Why I Am Not a Christian or a
Buddhist or a Muslim, etc.
When I was about 11 years of age I
overheard a conversation between my mother and the priest who supervised the
altar boys. I was one of his "stars". They were discussing how I would become a
priest. I interrupted them to say, "But I'm not going to be a priest."
"Why not." my mother said, "Because I want
to have children." I answered. They both laughed. "What's so funny?" I
thought.
In retrospect, that was probably an
indication of my not wanting to live by other's expectations. Another factor in
my very gradual evolution away from my religious upbringing was my curiosity.
Even as a very young child exploring the nature around our home just outside a
village in Northern Ontario I was fascinated by the frogs, birds, etc. When I
learned to read I haunted the public library in Kirkland Lake where we had
moved. There was no money to buy books in those depression years, so the
library's books were a great boon to my developing mind.
During secondary school years, my time in
the navy and then at university I gradually questioned more and more of what I
had accepted as "the truth". An analogy might be of a person held down by a
thousand strings. Any one of them easy to break but all of them together quite
capable of holding me firmly in place. It took a long time to break all the
strings.
I found it difficult to accept everything
on faith. Why this was the case I don't know. I remember discussing this with a
priest, Fr. Sullivan, a much revered priest at St. Michael's College at the
University of Toronto. "When you cross the street you have faith that you're
going to reach the other side don't you?" He didn't find it a satisfactory
answer when I replied, "Yes, but I avoid the traffic."
I well remember when I introduced my
parents to, Austra, the woman I intended to marry. "But she's not a Catholic."
mother blurted out. We got married in a Catholic chapel. Marrying a
non-Catholic in a regular church was not permitted.
As a child I certainly accepted authority,
whether of my parents, the church or professionals such as doctors or almost
anyone older than I. When I was in the navy I felt, just because someone wore
an officer's uniform didn't mean that he should hold power of life or death
over me. Mind you, that didn't mean that I didn't avoid being sent to the brig.
Gradually I arrived at the point where I questioned any authority before
accepting it. Of course, that certainly doesn't mean that I think it is
permissible to go against logical societal norms, like paying taxes, driving on
the right side of the road or a thousand and one normal situations in daily
life. I have a responsibility to support people with whom I agree and, at the
very least, to avoid those with whom I disagree. For example, when it comes
time for an election I investigate whom I should support and having decided do
so, not just with my vote but by canvassing or whatever other means are at my
disposal. A number of years ago, for example, I designed and produced a website
for my federal MP and I canvassed on his behalf at each election.
My "belief system" involves doing what I
reasonably can to make this world a better place. With that in mind I have
volunteered to work in developing countries around the world. Mind you I also
enjoyed travelling to exotic countries, meeting diverse people and helping them
as best I could. I also believe it is important to do what I can here at home
and volunteer to help newcomers to Toronto from francophone countries. Of
course I benefit too with the opportunity to practice French. My wife, Marion,
and I have also been able to help a couple of immigrant Chinese families. No
improvement to our Mandarin, though. A percentage increase on zero is still
zero!
It seems that most religious people find
it difficult to impossible to believe that others could honestly not believe as
they do. Christians in the later middle ages massacred 30% of the European
population (30 Years War) on behalf of their "loving" God - the same one on
each side! Militant Muslims believe non-believers, even non-believers of their
particular sect of Muslim, should convert or die, just like the perpetrators of
the Inquisition. Militant Sikhs feel it is OK to blow up a plane full of
innocent people. However, I don't reject religion because some aspects of it
are evil. I just cannot bring myself to accept the basic tenets of any
religion. I do have a sort of "faith" though. I believe the world is evolving
in a positive and realistic direction. There are days I despair, such as with
Global Warming. If we can deal with that, though, it could mean that we are on
a path towards a world that doesn't need the crutch of religion and with which
we can have a genuine hope for a world dominated by "goodwill towards man", to
coin a phrase. This doesn't mean that I'm against organized religion. It does
mean that I'm against any role for it in government.
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My Politics
When I was
in the Navy, towards the end of WW II, I had my first occasion to vote. I
believe I have never missed an opportunity since, either federally,
provincially or municipally. I have, at one or another time, voted for each of
the major parties. I have also canvassed many times for my preferred candidate
in my constituency. So I guess I qualify as a serious supporter of our
democracy, as well as being a "floating voter", the type of person whom each of
the parties must attract. I cannot be taken for granted like those who are
"dyed in the wool" supporters of a particular party. I have also, on occasion,
interviewed the candidate I might support. When I lived in the Don Valley West
riding, for example, I met with Liberal John Godfrey, when he first ran for
Member of Parliament. I was sufficiently impressed that I volunteered to create
a website for him. That was when websites were the exception rather than the
rule. I also canvassed for him during several subsequent election campaigns.
More recently, I worked for NDP member Olivia Chow.
Some of my concerns:
- In WW II we sent one million
of our people overseas. That amounted to the removal of 1/4 of our workforce of
about 4 million (from a population of 11,267,000). Nevertheless, for 5 years we
produced ships, guns, planes, munitions, supplies, paid our army's salaries,
etc. We generously gave our veterans free post-secondary education or money to
start a business. Today, we can't afford up-to-date infrastructure ($123
billion behind!) nor enough money to fully support Medicare. Why? Why do we
have so many homeless people? Why can we only afford less than 1/2 our
commitment to .07% of our GDP on helping the destitute of the world? Why do we
have the mentally ill begging on our streets?
- I have a problem with all our
political parties. For example: I'm in favour of "green" legislation but I
don't believe that we can make progress without nuclear power. That eliminates
the Green Party and the NDP. I don't believe we need to increase the
population. That eliminates the Conservatives and the Liberals. Of course the
Bloc is not in contention but maybe we should form a Separatist Party in
Ontario to get the attention of the federal government.
- A good education that is
dependant on the wealth of parents is an out-of-date concept. A well-educated
populace is the way to ensure a prosperous society. As such, I believe every
Canadian should be able to complete an education as far as his or her
capabilities will carry. Furthermore, the education costs should be entirely
covered by the government, including board and room on a needs basis. Many
countries offer free tuition, among them Denmark, Ireland, France, Germany,
Spain, Sweden, Australia, and Cuba. In Canada, the federal government provided
this support for veterans of WW II. It's what made it possible for me to go to
university. It would have been extremely difficult, likely impossible, for me
to do so otherwise. I believe I was able to contribute a great deal more to
Canada as a result of having that education. My guess is the same is true for
many other veterans and will be true for this and coming generations if granted
comparable support.
- Children who don't get a good
start in life are unlikely to make up for it later. Again, to assure our future
prosperous society, we should provide Early Childhood Education as a matter of
right. This would definitely not be a baby-sitting service but a means to
prepare pre-school children for a head start on a lifetime of learning.
Well-trained specialist teachers are essential.
- Every young person, probably
at age 18 or 19, should spend a year or maybe two in community service. Those
not qualified by temperament or education to perform this duty could spend
their time in the military or something comparable. During the service, the
young people would be paid a subsistence wage. Those attending post secondary
education and with satisfactory marks would be allowed to delay their service
until leaving school. Maybe some, such as physicians and teachers, could do
their community service in the North or other under-served areas in Canada or
even in Third World countries.
- According to Statistics
Canada's 2006 census on income and earnings, the richest fifth of Canadians'
income grew 16.4% between 1980 and 2005 while the poorest fifth of the
population saw earnings tumble 20.6% over the same 25-year period. Earnings
among people in the middle income bracket stagnated. It seems we live in a
"trickle-up" society.
- The C.D. Howe Institute says
the only way to keep the ratio of retirees to workers at current levels is to
take in 2.6 million immigrants a year by 2020 and seven million a year by 2050.
At that point Canada's population would reach 165.4 million. How ridiculous!
Canada's land mass is mostly uninhabitable and it is questionable whether our
major cities should get much larger. For example, the Toronto area has a
population of over 5 million. Do we aspire to be double, triple or quintuple
that?
- The only countries who have
lived up to their promise of allocating 0.07% of their annual GDP to Third
World development are the Nordic ones.
- A few of Canada's First
Nations peoples take advantage of a post-secondary education (paid for by the
federal government) and move up the ladder of economic success. But they are a
tiny minority. There are some 2,200 reserves across Canada. Most are in
despicable shape. Providing high quality Early Childhood Education plus support
for parents struggling with social problems would, in my view, bring positive
change over time. What is clear is that continuing to do what we're doing won't
help any more in the future than it has in the past.
- Measuring our prosperity or
lack thereof based on annual GDP is inaccurate at best. Money spent on
gambling, golf club membership, cigarettes, liquor, and second or third homes,
for example, is not an accurate measure of our general well-being. In one of
the richest countries of the world, the very poorest are getting poorer. Over 2
million children are living in poverty. GDP takes no account of that.
- Criminal activities in Canada
net them multi billions of dollars. No income tax! This is a good reason to
increase consumption (GST) taxes and to lower income taxes
accordingly.
- In fiscal 2006-07 the GST
accounted for 13.3 per cent of total government revenues. Cutting the goods and
services tax was universally regarded as unwise and smacked more of the
Bush-Republican influence than sound economics or fiscal planning. Nonetheless,
the tax cuts fit the Conservative game plan remarkably well. Starve the public
sector of resources, render it seemingly uncaring and eliminate its fiscal room
to usefully intervene in the economy, and the public will eventually believe
the rhetoric that government is the enemy not the solution.
- The Canadian Federation of
Municipalities estimates that the cost of maintaining, repairing and replacing
Canada's municipal infrastructure has reached $123 billion. The organization
breaks down this infrastructure deficit figure as follows: water and waste
water systems (a $31 billion deficit), transportation ($21.7 billion), transit
($22.8 billion), solid-waste management ($7.7 billion) and community,
recreational, cultural and social infrastructure ($40.2 billion). How are we
going to take care of this?
- Canada's military budget for
2008 was $18.2 billion and it's increasing each year. I'm concerned about what
we are denying Canadian citizens so we can maintain this expenditure. Might we
not be a more positive influence on the world if we spent about 1/2 the
military budget on improving the quality of life of Canadians? Some of the
other half of the amount saved might be devoted to living up to our .07% of
Gross National Income commitment, made in 1970 and never reached, to help
developing countries. Our current figure is 2.9%, less than half. We do need a
militia that can be called upon in case of a major catastrophe.
- Very rich Canadians park
multi-millions of dollars in tax havens. We need to track and tax this
money.
- Addicts, as well as the
mentally ill, need to be treated, not criminalized.
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When we won't need human
workers
In ancient times
slavery was practiced universally. Supposing we continue to develop machines to
replace human labour, will robots eliminate the need for menial labour to be
done by humans? What about all the people who are unable to do sophisticated
chores?
Actually, in Europe
and North America (not including Mexico) we depend on immigrants to do the work
that the rest of us avoid and that pays little. The only reason we still
employee people to do many jobs is because they can do so cheaper than
machines. I recall when I was a student working as a pick and shovel labourer.
A group of us were leaning on our shovels when the straw boss came along and
yelled at us. "Get back to work you #%^*s or that machine is going to do you
out of a job." I thought, "What a good idea".
Of course, the
problem was - I needed the meagre earnings. Nowadays, when was the last time
you saw someone digging a foundation with a pick and shovel? That's how we
improve productivity, of course and we want to improve productivity
continuously. Think of all the work being sent off-shore to India, China, Sri
Lanka, etc.
The logical end is
more robots and more sophisticated robots. The Japanese are already working on
them. Even very rich people have few servants any more. Fifty years ago John
Kenneth Galbraith wrote The Affluent Society where he raised the basic
question "For eons we supported the idle rich. Now we'll have to support the
idle poor." But with increases in productivity, i.e. increases in overall
wealth, must so many people be poor?
Probably we could
afford to support the idle poor but not if the rich take up all the benefits of
increased productivity. On the other hand, there are jobs such as caring for
the elderly and young children, that are not likely to be done well by robots.
How about paying a living wage to people doing such important work? Can we
afford not to?
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